You’re both seeing and experiencing the same thing and you can talk about it, versus having to come up with something spontaneous on your own, especially after a long day at work when you’re brain-dead. I wouldn’t give up trying to do that, but man, porn makes it a lot easier. We’d have to come up with more unique ways to fulfill that intimacy during the times he’s away. It would make the times when we’re apart more difficult. How do you think you and your husband’s relationship would be affected if he had to be away for a long stretch and you couldn’t use porn to connect? (At least while you’re in Louisiana.)